How to choose the right life partner

Choosing life partner is one of the most important decisions in your life and it’s a massive task also. Each one of us looks for the appropriate quality in life partner are joyous, caring, loving, intellectual with matching interest, intelligence, etc..

Before we do all these, we should also understand ourselves, our life style, what are the likings/disliking & most important is “priorities” in our life.

Following pointers will help you in identifying/selecting the life partner wisely:

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  1. Choose someone with whom you can connect & communicate easily. See if you enjoy talking with him/her without getting bored.
  1. Do ask the questions about his/her thought process on life after marriage. It will help you to understand each other better. Such question could be, but not limited to following :
  • What kind of qualities they are looking for in the life partner?
  • What are their life goals?
  • What are their long-term plans?
  • Any habits like smoke, drink, or any other?
  • Theirs ethics, interests, spiritual outlook, and even diet may be important to your long-term compatibility, so don’t be afraid to ask about any of it!
  1. Choose someone with whom your interest matches with him/her and you can share your likings and disliking easily. It helps you in way of your marriage life. This doesn’t mean that all of your interest should match with him/her. If some common interests make you comfortable with each other which that is also enough.
  1. Consider intelligence while you find someone. If you are an easy-going/calm person and your selected one is an over-achiever, which could lead to a hazard in your marriage life.
  1. While choosing a life partner, check also that your and your family’s standards match. Though it’s okay to choose someone who probably does not belong to the same levels of society as yours, make sure that he/she’s not completely off the mark.
  1. Consider the fact that he/she respects each other’s dreams/goals, personalities etc. so, choose someone who will acknowledge you for rest of your
  1. Nowadays it is extremely important to choose someone you can trust. You definitely cannot lead a happy marriage if you cannot trust or faith on each other.


  1. Choose someone with whom you like to spend your time. It is just as important as it is to have similar interests.
  1. Understand the person if you want to his/her to be your life partner, accept him/her with good n bad habits, likings, goals, intellectual level n family status.

A Blog by Chandni Dalal – Match Maker

What women want?


Men claim women are much more complicated than them, but what about

our side of the story? It’s actually really simple to make a woman happy – if

they’d only look out for the signs! Here are few things women wish men

knew… Guys – we hope you’re taking notes!

1. she wants her man must be best friend, amazing lover, good

caretaker, she want to fell  protected and safe with him.she want to be

more priority in his man’s life. She want that you notice her well like

new haircut, new dress, etc. and want your honest comment. she

wants healthy diction not arguments.

2. she want her man give her good surprises like you talk about one

book every time n she likes to read give her or place where she want

to move with you on long drive take her to drive.(not always

chocolate, dresses, candle light dinner) it makes her happy.

3. After long hectic day if she need your attention so guys plz mute TV,

put your phone a side n listen her. Give her feel that you are always

with her.

4. She wants honesty in her man so guys plz honest with her don’t lie it

will be reason to collapses your relationship.

5. Lazy men are most irritating so weak up n Help her in house hold.

child care, daily a responsible. she is also working out side

or at home. She is not free she need her care also.

6. Always I LOVE YOU is not magical if its your fault say her sorry her

Sorry its also work. dont be stubborn. Sorry is also in way of


7. Always careful for your hygiene.

8. She is not a taken for granted. Some days are always special in your

life so don’t forget these days. show yourself graduated in love. make

a self made card, be verbally n say her your feelings. she wants you

only so make a plan for that day. like anniversary,birthday.give spl

treatment to her n make it memorable.

9. Women are not always attention seeker but some times are crap.

painful times like..headach and PMS. periods are hell to deal

try to understand her.

10. Some time its good enough if you know about kitchen and make food.

A Blog from :

Chandni Dalal

Match Maker

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